3, life should feel ritualistic
When it comes to singer Zhang Yu, we should all know that his
singing always makes people feel vicissitudes and hesitation. He
is also known as the King of bitter love songs, but his marriage
and love are not as sad as those in his songs. Those who know
him well know that his songs are basically written by his wife,
Shikiro, and someone once asked him how to make a marriage so sweet. He said “the important days are lived well, the ordinary
days are lived easily”. This simple phrase illustrates the
importance of love rituals.
It is necessary for people to maintain a sense of ritual in their
lives, and it is also a guarantee to keep life infinitely fun. In fact,
it’s not that hard to do, and the details are often the most
moving. For example, remember important holidays and
anniversaries of the other person and send small gifts in a timely
manner. For example, each partner can occasionally try to do
something that has never been done before, such as negotiating
a rule that you can’t fight, you can’t sleep in separate beds, and
whoever gets it wrong gets to wash their stinky socks for a week.
There will be “good morning” and “good night” every day, and
hugs and greetings before leaving or returning home. These may
seem like small things, but they help us feel the love for each
other and the happiness and warmth of home.
4. Don’t be too far apart
The best way for two people to be together is if we progress
together, or if one person leads and the other follows closely.
That way, in the process of working and struggling together, we can better appreciate each other and understand how important
each other is to us.
We often meet such visitors, the man is successful in business
outside the home, the woman is at home to take care of the
family and children, and be a stay-at-home wife. But as time
goes on, we often find that there are problems in the marriage,
either the man is unfaithful, the marriage is falling apart, or both
parties are emotionally drained and less attractive. In fact, this is
a very unhealthy way to live. The advice I often give to my clients
is to find a way to entrust family and children to work. Especially
for women from disadvantaged groups, work and financial
independence are especially important. In this way, they will not
be separated from the society and further and further away from
their husbands. At the same time, you can also let your husband
see their efforts and love you more.
To sum up, there must be many factors to maintain a good
relationship. Love is classroom, marriage is knowledge. Only by
mastering the way we get along with each other can we make
our relationship between men and women go further and let our
love continue.Many times when we are deeply involved in it, we can not
look at the problem objectively, uncertain feelings and
emotions are easy to make us unnecessarily hurt.
If you can accurately judge the behavior and state of two
people, you can effectively avoid some problems.
I hope everyone reading this article can harvest love and
sweetness
